Institute for Mediation, Dispute Resolution and Arbitration

What to ask for in a business valuation for an Israeli divorce

Prepare the information a valuer needs, distinguish the operating business from a shareholding, and compare two valuation proposals for the same interest and date.

Worked example in equal fictional units at the same date
ItemUnitsWhat the example assumes
Value of operations8The valuation already includes what the business needs for normal operations.
Excess cash excluded from that value+1One available unit has been confirmed as excluded.
Financial debt not yet deducted−3The balance and effective date have been matched.
Value of all equity in the example6Eight plus one minus three.
Arithmetic one-third share2Assuming equal rights and no adjustment for the particular interest.
Eight units of operations, plus one of cash and minus three of debt, give six units of equity. One third is two.
The units illustrate the arithmetic. Valuing particular shares also requires knowing their rights and what has already been counted.
In this guide
  1. What exactly are you asking the valuer to value?
  2. Give the figure a job and name its readers
  3. Put one date on the valuation and keep the dates on the evidence
  4. Build the ownership picture from more than a percentage
  5. Send a brief that leaves the open questions visible
  6. Match each bank balance to the jobs in progress on the valuation date
  7. Test unusual costs against the work the owners actually do
  8. Choose an approach whose inputs fit the business
  9. Trace cash, customer deposits and borrowing through to equity
  10. Read the share rights before interpreting a percentage
  11. Read both engagement letters as if the work were finished
  12. Give the valuer controlled access to sensitive records
  13. Turn the surprising figure into a question someone can answer
  14. Compare the offers against the same difficult conversation
  15. Put the instruction and the acceptance conditions in writing

What exactly are you asking the valuer to value?

Tali had written “a valuation of our business” in the subject line. Before she sent the email, she showed it to Erez. “Will they know what ‘our’ means?” he asked. Tali and her sibling had built a small exhibition-lighting business in Israel. To Tali, “our” meant the two people who had spent years fitting lights in galleries. Erez read the same word as a reference to the two people preparing for divorce mediation. They had a sensible question about value, but the opening line left the valuer to guess whose interest was under discussion.

The instruction is the request that tells a valuer what conclusion the readers need and for what use. Write the first sentence before asking anyone to quote for the work. Give the company’s registered name and number, say briefly what it does, and describe the interest you want examined. “We are preparing for divorce mediation and would like a valuation of the shares recorded in Tali’s name in the company that designs and supplies exhibition lighting” gives the valuer a much better start. If the number or class of those shares still needs checking, leave that point open in the request.

There are three different subjects a phrase like “business value” might cover. One is the operations as a whole, such as the lighting design work, equipment hire and installation activity together. Another is all of the equity in the company that carries on those operations. Money the company owes and assets it holds outside its usual work can matter to the relationship between those two figures. A third subject is a particular holding in that equity. A conclusion about the operations may help the valuer reach a conclusion about the holding, but a reader who needs the latter should be able to find it distinctly identified.

Describe the boundaries in terms someone familiar with the work can check. Does the same company sign the design contract, invoice the museum and supply the lights? Is any part of the equipment hire carried on by the sibling personally or by a second company with a similar trading name? Equipment standing in the company’s storeroom may belong to a leasing company. It can be essential to the work even though the lighting company does not own it outright. A brief description of who does the work, who signs for it and who owns the equipment helps the valuer identify the subject before discussing the scope of the engagement.

Section 6 of Israel’s Spouses (Property Relations) Law distinguishes valuing assets for the balancing of resources from deciding how to carry out that balancing. Where the parties disagree about implementation, the considerations set out in the provision include avoiding, so far as possible, disruption to the continued functioning of a company or workplace. Give the valuer a defined financial question. Ask separately which interests fall within the legal arrangement in your circumstances and how any balancing would take place. A figure for a company answers neither question on its own.

Give the figure a job and name its readers

A couple can agree that they want a figure for mediation and still expect it to answer different questions. One spouse may want to understand the financial significance of a holding shown on a family balance sheet. The other may expect an indication of what a buyer would pay for it. Ask each other, “When we get the report, what sentence do we want to be able to finish?” If the answer is “We understand the value attributed to this identified holding for our discussions,” say so. If either person expects a figure for a different use, bring that expectation into the conversation before the instruction is settled.

Distinguish who will receive the work from who supplied the records. The sibling may be the only person who can explain the company’s hire contracts. That makes the sibling an important source of information, but it does not settle whether the sibling is commissioning the work or is an intended reader. Equally, Erez can be an intended reader without being identified as a shareholder. Say whether the couple expect to read the report themselves and whether they intend their mediator or financial advisers to use it in the discussions. Ask the valuer to identify the agreed users and use in the engagement terms.

The basis of value gives the figure its meaning. In ordinary language, ask whose circumstances the conclusion is meant to reflect and what is assumed about the interest being valued. A figure that reflects an advantage available only to one particular buyer answers a different question from one framed around buyers who lack that advantage. For example, a neighbouring equipment supplier might already have warehouse space and technicians available for installation work. Its particular circumstances need not describe those of anyone else. Ask the valuer to propose a basis that fits the intended use, explain it in language both spouses can follow and identify any assumptions it requires.

Consider what Erez could reasonably understand from the finished work without having attended a company meeting. Would he be able to tell whether the figure concerns Tali’s holding or every shareholder’s interests together? Would Tali be able to point to the assumption made about a disputed class of shares? If the records cannot answer an important question, ask the valuer to tell both readers how that gap affects the conclusion. These are useful requirements for the explanation the couple will receive. They leave room for the professional to propose a form of work proportionate to the question.

Put one date on the valuation and keep the dates on the evidence

The valuation date is the point in time for which you want the conclusion. It can differ from the day the valuer starts work, the date the accounts were approved and the day the report arrives. If the date for the couple’s discussions has already been agreed, give it in full, with the month written out so nobody misreads it. If it remains open, say who will come back with an instruction. A convenient year end may provide good records. That convenience alone does not settle which point in time the readers need the figure to describe.

Imagine that the couple have identified a date in December. An overseas museum has paid a deposit for a spring exhibition. The bank entry shows when the money arrived and in what currency. The signed contract shows what the company promised to provide, and the installation schedule shows when the crew expected to do the work. Give the valuer all three. The bank balance alone does not tell the reader whether the company had completed any design work by December, what it still owed the museum in services, or under what circumstances the museum could reclaim its deposit.

Later paperwork sometimes helps establish an earlier fact. A statement issued in January might confirm a lease balance outstanding in December. A new order placed in January raises a different question, especially if nobody had discussed it with the customer by the valuation date. Keep the original dates on both documents. If a later order followed negotiations that were already under way, provide the dated correspondence rather than asking the valuer to infer how far those negotiations had progressed. The valuer can then explain what the later material establishes and how it was used.

The same discipline applies to shares. An extract downloaded this week might describe the current holding accurately while saying little about the holding a year ago. Ask for the entries covering the relevant period and the documents behind any change. If the accounts close in December but the proposed valuation date falls in March, tell the valuer what records exist for the intervening months. When a balance or an ownership entry can only be confirmed as of a different day, label it that way. Both spouses should be able to tell which date belongs to the conclusion and which dates belong to the evidence used to reach it.

Build the ownership picture from more than a percentage

Start with the company’s share register. Take down the registered holder’s name, the number of shares, their class and the date the entry relates to. Do the same for the other holders, including a sibling who is outside the marriage. A count for Tali in isolation gives the valuer no way to see how her holding fits into the company. If a company summary says only “ordinary shares,” keep the original class descriptions from the register as well. Similar names in English can conceal a distinction that is clear in the company’s Hebrew documents.

Read those entries alongside the articles of association, shareholder agreements and any amendments relevant to the date. A share class can carry voting rights that differ from its rights to distributions. An agreement might require another holder’s consent for specified decisions. Ask which document sets out each right and whether the copy supplied was in effect on the valuation date. The immediate task is to describe what comes with the identified holding. The size of a percentage, a director’s title or the existence of a consent provision does not by itself tell the couple what financial effect the valuer will attribute to it.

Then ask what the people involved understand to be the actual ownership picture. A shareholder might say that some shares registered in one name are held for somebody else. A sibling might remember a promise of further shares in return for taking on design work. Request the document or correspondence behind the account, identify who provided it and say whether the people concerned agree about it. If the register and the explanation differ, give the valuer both versions. A clearly described disagreement allows the professional to ask for clarification or explain which assumption would be needed to proceed.

Keep other financial relationships visible in their own terms. Money advanced by a sibling may appear in the books as a shareholder loan. The balance and any terms can matter, but the loan entry does not establish that more shares were issued. A spouse may have signed a bank guarantee or helped with the accounts for years. Record the guarantee or the work where it is relevant, and look separately for evidence of a shareholding. This is particularly important for Erez. His relationship to Tali identifies why he needs to understand the valuation. It leaves the question of whose name appears in the register to the records.

With a non-spouse shareholder, agree on a practical route for questions about gaps. The sibling might be able to confirm that a signed amendment exists while the company’s accountant holds the only accessible copy. Record who can provide it and whether the valuer can see the complete document. A missing signature page is worth identifying specifically. It gives the couple something concrete to request and tells the valuer why a term that one spouse remembers confidently has yet to be verified. The sibling’s holding belongs in this account even when the requested conclusion concerns Tali’s holding alone.

Send a brief that leaves the open questions visible

A useful handover can fit on a page, with the records supplied separately. Put the registered company details on that page and use filenames that let the valuer find the relevant register, agreement and accounts. If two versions of an agreement are in circulation, identify which is signed and why the other is included. Resist polishing away an uncertainty just to make the brief look finished. The following wording gives Tali and Erez something they could send together while a date and some records are still being confirmed.

“We would like a valuation of the shares recorded in Tali’s name in the Israeli company identified in the attached register. The company designs, supplies and installs lighting for exhibitions. We want to understand the value of Tali’s identified holding for our divorce mediation discussions. We both intend to read the work and discuss it with our mediator. Please identify the number and class of shares covered and distinguish your conclusion on that holding from any figure you use for the operations or for the company’s equity as a whole.

“Tali’s sibling is also a shareholder. We are including the share register and the agreements available to us so you can see how the two holdings fit together. We have described Erez as an intended reader. We are not instructing you to assume he holds shares or to determine either spouse’s legal entitlement. Please tell us if the documents leave a material question about ownership or rights unresolved, and what further record or clarification would allow you to address it.

“We will confirm the valuation date in writing. The records carry their own dates. They include an overseas museum’s deposit for a spring exhibition and agreements for equipment the company leases. Please tell us what additional information you need about the work due to the museum and the equipment arrangements at the agreed date. Please propose the basis of value for this use, explain its meaning for us as readers and identify the assumptions on which your conclusion about the holding would depend.”

Once the valuer has read the brief, the couple can check the proposed instruction for a small but consequential change in wording. If the reply offers a conclusion on “the value of the company,” ask whether the work will also identify the value attributed to the specified shares. If the reply assumes a date the couple have yet to confirm, settle that point in writing. Those questions can be answered while the assignment is still taking shape, when the register, the museum contract and even the pronoun in the original email are close at hand.

Match each bank balance to the jobs in progress on the valuation date

A bank statement can be accurate to the last shekel and still give a misleading picture of a business. Suppose an overseas museum sends a deposit to the small Israeli exhibition-lighting company that Tali built with her sibling. The money arrives in December for a spring exhibition. On the day it clears, the company is richer in cash and still owes the museum a lighting installation. If December falls at the end of the period under review, a valuer needs to see both sides of that transaction. The bank statement establishes receipt. The booking agreement and job records explain what the company had earned and what it still had to do.

Start with the effective date specified for the valuation. Ask for monthly trading figures covering enough complete exhibition seasons to see whether the latest one was unusual, together with the figures for the part of the final month up to that date if necessary. Match the closing bank balances to the accounts for the same day. A supplier payment recorded before the date may clear afterward. A transfer between a shekel account and a foreign currency account may appear on different days in the two statements. A short reconciliation identifying the payment or transfer is more informative than two sets of balances that someone has adjusted until they agree.

For the museum booking, set the customer’s payment dates beside the dates for design approval, equipment delivery, installation and dismantling. Keep the original currency on the paperwork so the valuer can distinguish a change in the shekel equivalent of a payment from a change in the price of the work. Then look across other jobs for the same pattern. The busiest month for the installers may be quiet in the bank account because customers paid on booking and will pay the balance after inspection. A graph of receipts alone might place the seasonal peak several months before the company actually needed extra crew and vans.

Records from just after the effective date can help explain an entry that was already there. A January payment bearing a December invoice number may identify which customer owed money at the cutoff. A museum that first approached the company in January presents a different question. Keep the date of the initial inquiry visible, even if the job later became important. When comparing scopes, ask how the valuer will use later information and whether the report will distinguish evidence about an existing balance from business won afterward. That distinction matters particularly when an owner sends over a current booking calendar in place of the version available on the relevant day.

Test unusual costs against the work the owners actually do

Before treating an expense as exceptional, find out what it bought. An unusually large freight bill might relate to a damaged crate that had to be replaced overnight. It might also be the ordinary cost of getting delicate fittings to a gallery with a narrow delivery window. Read the supplier invoice alongside the job sheet and the original customer quote. If the customer reimbursed the freight, removing the expense while keeping the reimbursement would make the job appear more profitable than it was. If rushed deliveries occur regularly across different customers, the name of this particular exhibition matters less than the recurring cost of meeting those deadlines.

The same reasoning applies to costs that arrive at long intervals. A workshop may service its lifting equipment in a single quiet month, leaving most monthly statements free of that expense. Ask for enough service history to see the interval and whether the latest bill covered routine work, an overdue repair or an upgrade. Someone comparing proposals can ask a precise question here. “If you adjust the latest year, will I be able to see the original charge, the reason for changing it and the amount you have allowed instead?” That leaves room for a supported adjustment in either direction.

Owner pay takes more work because the payslip rarely describes the job. Tali might draw lighting plans, negotiate access with a museum registrar and return late at night to supervise focusing after other contractors leave. Her sibling might handle the workshop and book freelance technicians. To show the division of work, pick a completed installation and follow it from the first site visit through final signoff. Identify who priced it, who revised the design when a display case moved and who could authorize an extra evening on site. Do this for a quiet period too. A week spent installing a major show is a poor guide to the hours required throughout the year.

The useful question is what it would take to keep earning the income attributed to the business under the assumptions being examined. A designer could perhaps cover Tali’s drawings, while an existing supervisor already handles much of the evening work. Equally, a nominal salary might conceal substantial unpaid time spent winning repeat bookings. Evidence could include crew schedules, past cover during an owner’s absence and the responsibilities behind any pay comparison. Keep compensation for work separate from payments made because someone holds shares. Otherwise an adjustment meant to reflect the cost of a working owner can quietly remove a genuine expense or charge the business twice for the same role.

Choose an approach whose inputs fit the business

An income approach asks what the business’s expected financial benefits are worth at the effective date. For the lighting company, a central input is the amount left from a job after the company supplies the equipment, labour and design time it promised. A signed exhibition booking supports a different assumption from a curator’s invitation to submit a proposal. Even a signed job can have an uncertain margin if the room design is still changing. Ask which bookings support the earnings assumptions and what evidence supports the costs attached to them. Last season’s total sales reveal little about the value of a spring calendar filled with large but labour-intensive installations.

An income approach also needs a credible account of the money the work consumes. A profitable installation can tie up funds while the museum checks the finished work. Older fittings may need replacing to deliver the mix of installations assumed. If a proposal relies on a management budget, ask to see how an earlier budget compared with the jobs actually delivered, including cancellations and extra crew calls. That comparison can identify which estimates deserve confidence and which need a wider range. It also gives both spouses something concrete to discuss when they disagree about the prospects for a customer who books irregularly.

A market approach draws on prices observed for comparable businesses or ownership interests. The difficult part is understanding what was sold. A company described as an exhibition supplier might earn most of its money renting out a stock of standard fixtures. Another might own little equipment and sell specialist design work through a founder with longstanding museum relationships. Similar turnover would say little about the resources needed to produce it. A reported sale price may also include a warehouse or a payment conditional on customers staying. Ask what the valuer knows about the transaction terms, the businesses’ activities and the financial measure being compared. Missing terms can make an apparently close match a weak reference.

An asset approach examines the underlying assets and obligations. It can be informative where equipment accounts for much of the business’s worth, provided the register distinguishes owned fixtures from leased units and gear borrowed for a particular show. Serial numbers, condition reports and evidence of prices for serviceable used equipment may tell the valuer more than original invoices. A flight case full of discontinued controls may still be useful with one customer’s system yet have few potential buyers. Conversely, a register of workshop contents captures little of a profitable design practice built on repeat commissions. When two approaches point in different directions, ask which missing input might explain the difference before putting weight on an average.

Trace cash, customer deposits and borrowing through to equity

Cash generation describes activity over a period. A bank balance describes a position on a day. Money available to distribute raises a further question about the obligations and operating needs that cash must cover. A customer advance can increase the balance before a job earns a profit. Drawing on a credit facility can do the same without producing any customer income at all. For the museum exhibition, follow the deposit into the bank, then identify the equipment hire, crew payments and other commitments still ahead. The deposit amount alone does not tell you the remaining cost of delivering the job or how much cash the company needs between bookings.

Consider an explicitly hypothetical illustration. Assume that, at 31 December 2025, a valuer has reached an enterprise value of NIS 2,400,000 for the operating business. For this illustration alone, that figure assumes the company retains NIS 250,000 of operating cash, carries its usual customer advances and pays the agreed rentals on its leased lighting rigs. The figure excludes the bank term loan and cash above the agreed operating amount. The reconciled bank balance on that date is NIS 400,000, including a NIS 100,000 museum deposit. Assume the deposit is available for the contracted work and that the operating cash allowance and treatment of customer advances already reflect this booking.

On those narrow assumptions, the cash to add is NIS 150,000, the difference between the bank balance and the operating cash already included. Assume a lender’s statement shows NIS 550,000 outstanding on the term loan at the same date, with no further interest or charges to include, and that there are no other adjustments. Adding NIS 150,000 to NIS 2,400,000 and deducting NIS 550,000 gives an illustrated equity value of NIS 2,000,000 for all the shares together. The museum deposit appears within the bank balance, and the business’s obligation to perform is already reflected in the stated assumptions. Deducting the deposit again would change the calculation without identifying any additional obligation.

In an actual scope, investigate the starting figure before accepting any addition or deduction. Were the rentals treated as operating payments when the enterprise value was estimated, as assumed here, or was the equipment valued on another basis that calls for a corresponding lease obligation? Does the lender’s statement cover the same facility shown under a different name in the accounts? Is cash pledged to the bank, or needed to pay crews through the seasonal gap? Ask the valuer to trace each material amount from its supporting record through the calculation. Calling cash surplus for valuation purposes does not establish that the company can pay that amount out on demand.

Read the share rights before interpreting a percentage

A percentage can answer a narrow arithmetic question. Taking the fraction of issued shares registered to Tali and applying it to a figure for all shares produces a proportional reference amount. The arithmetic gives no information about who can appoint a director, approve a distribution or require another holder’s consent to a transfer. It also says nothing about whether Erez owns any shares. For a reader comparing scopes, the first question is whether the proposed work values the entire company’s equity, identifies a proportional reference amount or examines the particular holding described in the instructions. The distinction should be clear enough that both spouses can tell which question a quoted figure answers.

Use the share register as it stood on the effective date, then check the documents describing the rights of each class and any relevant agreement between holders. Shares with the same voting rights may carry different rights to receive money. A family may also have made decisions by consensus for years even though the formal arrangements allocate decision-making power differently. Meeting records and payment histories can help explain what has happened in practice. Keep that history alongside the written terms so the valuer can identify any assumption that needs clarification. An owner saying “we always agree on purchases” answers a different question from “whose approval is required?”

Tali’s ability to retain a museum customer belongs in this discussion only with care. If the income analysis already allows for the cost of replacing her design work and the risk of losing repeat bookings, ask what separate feature of the shares any further adjustment would address. A restriction on transfer may warrant examination under the agreed scope, but the wording, circumstances and evidence matter. A proposal that simply applies a percentage adjustment to a family holding leaves the reader unable to see which right affected the result or whether the same concern entered earlier through the business earnings.

One practical question to put to a valuer is, “If the siblings gave different accounts of who can approve a payment to shareholders, which document would you need, and which figure might change?” A precise answer might identify an agreement needed to assess the particular shares while leaving the estimate for the operating business intact. If the relevant document is unavailable, a scope can identify the assumption on which the holding is examined and explain how a different reading could affect that part of the work. That gives Tali and Erez a way to distinguish a disagreement about the exhibition business from a disagreement about the rights carried by a share.

Read both engagement letters as if the work were finished

Imagine opening the valuer’s email a month from now. You and your spouse have a mediation meeting on Thursday. You can both read the conclusion, but you disagree about what the valuer assumed. Can you send back a question? Will the answer go to both of you? Will it arrive in a form you can take to the meeting? Read each proposed engagement far enough to picture that exchange. A promise to “assist the parties in mediation” leaves each of those details open.

In one fictional engagement, the valuer offers a written opinion for use by the two spouses and their advisers in mediation. The report will identify the business interest being valued, the agreed date, the records examined and the assumptions that materially affect the conclusion. Both spouses will receive the same signed version. They may submit one combined round of written questions within an agreed period, and both will receive the written answers. The valuer will correct a transcription or calculation error found during that exchange. Reviewing a newly produced contract or considering a different valuation date would require separate instructions.

In a second engagement, the valuer offers a more limited review. The spouses will receive a worksheet showing the result under two agreed assumptions, followed by a joint call. They can ask questions on that call, and the valuer will revise the worksheet once if they agree which of the two assumptions to use. There will be no signed narrative report or written answers after the call. The letter does include a separate preparation session if a hearing is scheduled. The valuer would use that session to go through the worksheet with the spouses and their advisers. It does not include giving testimony.

The first letter excludes both hearing preparation and testimony. The second includes preparation but leaves testimony for a fresh agreement. That distinction matters even to spouses who expect to resolve their differences in mediation. “Available to testify” may mean you can ask the expert later, subject to availability and terms. It gives you little basis for counting attendance as part of the present offer. Equally, hearing preparation may have no value to you if what you need is a written answer you can consider quietly after a meeting.

Before accepting either letter, check who can instruct the valuer and who can receive the work. In the fictional exhibition-lighting business, Tali and her sibling built the company together. Erez can have a financial interest in understanding the valuation without being described as a shareholder. The engagement can name him as a recipient and give him an agreed way to ask questions. The description of what the expert will value belongs in a separate sentence, where everyone can check it against the company records.

Two published services illustrate the difference in scope. Shovy Plus advertises an online questionnaire-based valuation starting at ₪499. Its description says that a result is produced after the user supplies the data. Cohen Partners separately describes a professional engagement ending in a signed report and prices that work individually by scope. When you approach a valuer, specify the deliverable you need and ask for its fee, VAT terms and the cost of additional records, follow-up questions or attendance. The figure for the online questionnaire does not price an expert opinion on the shares in your company.

Give the valuer controlled access to sensitive records

Start a records request with the question the document is meant to answer. For the overseas museum’s spring exhibition, the valuer may need to establish what the company had promised to deliver when it received the deposit. A bank entry shows that money arrived. The signed booking terms may show whether the museum could cancel, what work the company had already committed to and when the balance would fall due. Asking for the agreement and any amendment affecting those terms is easier to justify to Tali’s sibling than asking for the entire museum correspondence file.

Suppose the sibling objects because the agreement contains the museum’s security arrangements and the names of staff who control access to the building. Ask the valuer whether a copy with those passages concealed would be adequate. Keep the page numbers, section headings and references to attachments visible so the valuer can see where material has been removed. If the payment clause refers to an installation schedule, include the relevant part of that schedule. A carefully redacted contract can still be unusable if the one attachment that explains a payment condition is missing.

Sometimes the sensitive passage and the financial evidence are on the same page. The company might allow the expert to inspect the complete agreement in a restricted folder while giving the spouses a redacted copy. Agree beforehand who may open the folder, whether the expert may retain an extract and what the expert may say about it. For example, both spouses might receive a description of the cancellation condition without receiving the museum’s internal contacts. Ask Erez whether that description would let him understand and question the assumption. Ask the expert whether the proposed restrictions would allow a conclusion they could explain.

Distinguish an incomplete search from a refusal. “The lease annex has not been found” calls for a different response from “the annex exists and the company will not release it.” In the first case, someone can ask the equipment supplier for a duplicate. In the second, the valuer can explain which question remains open and whether another record would answer it. An invoice may confirm that the company paid for the use of lighting equipment while saying nothing about an option to buy it. If the missing terms matter, have the expert identify the limitation, the assumption used and what would prompt reconsideration. Neither spouse needs to guess why a record was withheld.

Turn the surprising figure into a question someone can answer

An odd number is a good place to look and a poor place to stop. Suppose the company’s bank statement shows a large receipt from the museum in December, while the project schedule shows little work that month. Erez asks, “Why did the business do so well in December if the exhibition opens in spring?” The question matters, but it joins two events that may belong to different periods. Ask the expert to trace the receipt from the bank entry to the customer account and identify what, if anything, the company still had to supply at the agreed valuation date.

Reading that trace might settle the apparent discrepancy immediately. The receipt could be exactly the deposit described in the signed booking. There might still be a genuine unanswered question about a later email moving the opening by several weeks. Did the revised timetable change the company’s commitments, and was the change known at the date the expert was asked to consider? A copy of the email with its date and the museum’s acceptance could help. Another copy of the bank statement would add nothing. In written comments, preserve that distinction so the valuer can close the question about the receipt and concentrate on the timetable.

A similar distinction applies if equipment hire looks unusually expensive in the month before the exhibition. Tali recalls that the company had to reserve a second lighting console. Her sibling remembers a payment covering several months of an existing lease. Both recollections are plausible, and the ledger description “console hire” cannot choose between them. The supplier invoice, equipment identifier and covered hire period might resolve the point in minutes. Ask which console the payment covered and which period the expert assigned it to. Avoid asking the expert to defend the entire equipment budget on the strength of one entry.

Sometimes the documents explain the figure and the expert’s treatment still surprises you. Ask for the step between the two. “I can see that the supplier billed the reservation in December. Where have you allowed for that reservation in your treatment of the spring project?” That gives the expert room to point to an existing allowance, correct an omission or explain a judgment. If the documents cannot settle the matter, ask whether a different reasonable treatment would make a material difference. You can then decide how much effort to spend obtaining further evidence with some idea of what the answer might change.

Compare the offers against the same difficult conversation

Rehearse the meeting you are buying the work for. Suppose Tali believes the museum booking supports an expectation of repeat work because the company has supplied other exhibitions for the same institution. Erez reads the booking as a single commission. They can put the disagreement to either expert in one sentence. “Please distinguish the work covered by this agreement from any future bookings you have assumed, and tell us what supports the latter.” The expert can examine the order history and explain the assumption. Neither spouse has to frame a view about what share of the business or its value anyone should receive.

Now play the conversation through under each letter. With the written report, Erez can mark the paragraph that appears to assume repeat work. Tali can identify the prior orders she thinks support it. They can send both comments together and receive an answer they can reread. If the orders were already in the expert’s file, explaining how they were weighed fits naturally within a clarification. If Tali supplies an unexamined archive of bids, ask whether reviewing it would change the scope. A round of questions may be included even when a fresh examination of evidence is additional work.

Under the limited engagement, the same discussion takes place on the call. Ask the valuer to show where the two agreed assumptions appear in the worksheet. If the difference between them is repeat museum work, the spouses can see what turns on their disagreement without settling it during the call. If the two assumptions concern equipment costs instead, neither worksheet result may answer the question about repeat work. The one included revision permits them to choose between the agreed assumptions. It gives them no reason to expect a third version built around an issue they have just raised.

For a fair comparison, ask each valuer to describe the work needed to reach the same stopping point. Perhaps both spouses want a conclusion they can read independently, a joint discussion and a written response to the museum question. Ask the first valuer what it would take to add the discussion, and the second what it would take to add the written reasoning and response. Compare the resulting offers alongside the originals. If the spouses only need to explore two possibilities together, keep that narrower comparison in view. A report adds real work, and its usefulness depends on who will read it and what they need to understand afterwards.

Put the instruction and the acceptance conditions in writing

Once you choose an offer, the instruction can be short because the agreed letter carries the detail. Fill in the business interest and valuation date before sending it. Use the same description in the letter and the instruction, especially where the company has more than one owner. For the written engagement, the spouses could say, “Please proceed on the terms of the attached letter and send the signed report to both of us. Please explain how you treated the museum deposit and the leased equipment. If a missing record prevents you from answering either point, tell us which record you need before you finish.”

Give the expert a clear way to handle changes. A further sentence will often do. “If you think new material requires additional work, please describe the work and its effect on delivery and wait for our joint written instruction.” Agree how long the spouses have to respond and what the expert should do if they differ. For example, they might ask the expert to complete the agreed work with a stated limitation if the expert considers that possible. This gives the expert a usable instruction when one spouse sends a late attachment and the other considers the file complete.

Tie acceptance to things both readers can check. Under the first engagement, the delivered report should cover the agreed interest and date, identify significant restrictions on the records examined and explain the treatment of the two matters singled out in the instruction. Both recipients should be able to open the same version and know when their written questions are due. Under the limited engagement, check instead that the worksheet identifies both assumptions, that the joint call took place and that any revision triggered under the letter reached both recipients. Agreement with the figure would be a poor acceptance condition. A spouse can acknowledge delivery of the promised work while continuing to question a judgment in it.

If a few questions remain, attach a short, optional record of them in the spouses’ own words. “Does the supplier’s replacement annex identify the console covered by the lease? Would the changed opening date affect your treatment of the deposit? Can you answer from the records you have?” Beside each question, identify who will obtain the missing document or whether both spouses are content to leave the limitation in place. The final instruction can then distinguish the question the expert still needs to answer from the assumption everyone understands and one spouse continues to dispute.

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